Ethical Non Monogamy Therapy for Individuals who are in or seeking relationships in TX.

Polyamory Therapist in San Antonio and across texas.

Polyamory Playground: A Counseling Space Where Lot’s of Love, Intimacy, and Fun Can Coexist.

Am I polyamorous? is Ethical Non Monogamy For Me? IF so, What if we cross the line and can never go back?


You ponder what it would be like,  freedom of love, intimacy, and unlimited  kinky sex! What a dream! Except fear, jealousy, societal attitudes, and unapproving,  ready to disgrace family seem to stop you in your tracks, everytime…

Perhaps you are struggling to communicate with your partner. Dealing with jealousy and scared shitless that your relationship is changing in ways that you can’t comprehend or predict. Everything feels out of control and you squabble in your thoughts afraid that your relationship health is on the line. You are concerned your partners are going to find someone else and leave forever, or that you won’t live up to your partner’s other partners. You finally unleashed the desire to be an open relationship to your partner, but nothing has been the same since.

Being  ethically non monogamous is a choice for some but an identity for others. Nevertheless, the emotional landscape, indecisive boundaries or pull backs, miscommunication or difficulty conveying needs to your partners, affects more than you ever imagined. It has left you feeling tired, scared, overwhelmed, invading any normalcy you had left and impacting how much you sleep, eat, or even your basic hygiene. Your thoughts keep cycling, obsessing over what you have done, not knowing where to go from here?

Having an open relationship usually looks differently for everyone. So you can relax and finally let go.

Polyamory relationship configurations are not all the same, and not one way is the “right” way. Whether you are a poly newbie or a plum ripe on a tree, murky visions  and emotional conflict can be overwhelming to handle alone. The good news is, you can have deeper conversations with all  partners you want to be with, build trust and connection within your space, and set the tone for deep seated issues to be resolved. 


You have spoken to many friends who seem to have it all together, but what you haven’t seen is the doubt, insecurity, and dropped confidence levels that everyone has faced at some point or another. Polyamory isn’t for the faint of heart and to get to a satisfying point in your relationship configuration will take lots of strong communication and hard work!

LOVE AUTHENTICALLY. CONNECT DEEPLY. BE YOU COMPLETELY.

How Can Polyamory Therapy Help?

The Past

 In our space together, we will delve deep into your past relationship experiences and explore the good, the bad, and the ugly. No situation is perfect, but what we can learn is what to avoid, what you want more of, and how to convey it better. Just think of being able to reconcile losses and explore impressions that destroyed your self-esteem and confidence, while learning how to manifest dignity, respect, and understanding of who you are!

The Present

Let’s delve into your current experiences. Perhaps you are struggling to disclose you want an open relationship with a partner and wondering how to defrost your words. Or the words have slipped, you didn’t get the reaction you hoped for, and ever since nothing has been working like before. Or you are knee deep in poly life but feel stuck in an unbalanced state between all your partners, and you are not sure where to go from here? We can help identify some struggles, explore inner or outer conflicts, and equip yourself with skills that can actually help you do something about it.

The Future

Counseling can help you navigate areas of your life where your needs are unmet. You might even need  help to navigate emotional safety when dating or building new partnerships or even finding support through the grieving process when having to let a partner go. Whatever need arises, counseling can provide expert tools, validation, and reflections to help you build longer lasting and satisfying future relationships with love that cares for all your desires.

Polyamorous Relationship Therapy can help you with:

  • Lessen the toll of emotional strain on your mental health. . 

  • Get clear on if ethical non monogamous relationships are right for you. 

  • Have difficult conversations between you and your partners. 

  • Identify and prioritize your own desires. 

  • Create balanced time commitments with every relationship.

  • Call out jealousy and do something about it.

It’s possible to calm the taboo waters of polyamory, while finally immersing yourself in rich deep loving connections, with confidence and untamed joy.

FRequently asked questions

  • Great question! Currently, we can offer therapy that includes your partners from time to time, when needing to communicate or mediate between a conflict. However, we do not offer couples therapy at this time in order to keep the space yours. I can provide resources for you and your partners if couples therapy is needed in the future.

  • Everyone comes to therapy with unique concerns requiring a personalized experience and approach. Part of the process is for you to determine how much therapy you need and how often you want to come. This is YOUR space and YOUR choice. Typically, my clients experience intentional change pretty quickly but many would say they love to keep therapy around for validation, clarification, and objectivity. All things that set us apart from friends and family.

  • I feel that you and I should be allowed to determine your treatment needs based upon your unique situation rather than an insurance company. I can best ensure your confidentiality, goals for therapy, and treatment plan when I am able to practice independent from insurance companies.

    One main reason why I do not partner with insurance companies is because they often require I share your diagnosis and treatment plan in order to receive payment. This information then becomes part of your permanent medical record which at times can have negative consequences related to employment or when you are seeking new medical or life insurance. I also prefer to be an out-of-network provider since insurance companies usually require therapists to follow approved treatment methods and often limit the number of sessions that a client can receive.

  • Yes, we offer a sliding scale to a limited number of clients to support individuals interested in working with our practice. Mental health and wellness is vital for everyone.

  • Research suggests that there is no clinical difference regarding the effectiveness of therapy when delivered in a different format. So grab your favorite blanket, a cup of something warm, and enjoy your self-care and enrichment time!

  • A form of payment that is accepted and commonly used by our clients is FSA/HSA cards. Though, we also accept most forms of payment outside of these options.. Your card is stored securely through HIPAA compliant software on your client file and payment is deducted on the same day of your appointment. We do honor a 24 hour cancellation policy in order to maintain the integrity & consistency of the schedule.

    Here are the following investment options in your health:

    Starburst

    Telehealth:

    $65 per 25-30 minute session

    In-Person:

    $75 per 25-30 minute session

    Shooting for the Stars

    Telehealth:

    $130 per 45-50 minute session

    In-Person:

    $150 per 45-50 minute session

    Meteor Showers

    Telehealth:

    $160 per 75-80 minute session

    In-person:

    $200 per 75-80 minute session